Chayei Sarah- The Life of Sarah

This week's parsha is Chayei Sarah, the life of Sarah. This is an interesting name considering that Sarah dies in the beginning of the parsha and the rest of the Torah portion is about the marriage of Isaac and Rivka. Rivka is continuation of Sarah the same way that Isaac is the continuation of Abraham. The Jewish people are a continuation. Similar to a baton race; after each run the next teammate hands the baton over. Every generation hands us the baton to continue living Jewish life. We are a continuation. When it gets tough remember that you have everyone that came before you cheering for you to finish the race. Marriage and having children, who are properly brought up in the ways of Hashem, are key.

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The Rebbetzin shares a beautiful story "about two brothers who lived in the holy city of Jerusalem. Their houses were at opposite ends of the city, and they were separated by a great mountain. One brother was very poor, but blessed with many children, while the other possessed a great fortune, but had no family.

"One night, the wealthy brother tossed and turned in his sleep. It is terribly unjust, he thought to himself, that I should be given so much, while my brother, who has a large family to support, has so little. I have to do something to help him.

"That same night, the impoverished brother also awoke from his sleep and kept thinking about his sibling. Of what good is all my brother’s money, he thought to himself. Without children, his life is lonely and meaningless. I must do something to show him how much I care. As the brothers lay awake thinking of how they might give comfort to one another, they both came up with an identical plan. In the darkness of the night, each would secretly leave a gift at the door of his brother.

"And so, the two brothers set out and began to climb the mountain from opposite directions. As they reached the top, the sun rose over Jerusalem. When they saw one another, they were astonished. For a moment, they just stood there, looking at each other, unable to speak, and then, weeping with joy, they fell into each other’s arms, each pleading, “Please, my brother, accept this gift.” And as they embraced, a Heavenly Voice was heard: “This ground has been sanctified by the love of the brothers. It is here that I shall build My Holy Temple!”

It would be ideal if we all could be like those two brothers and feel each other’s pain, but unfortunately, we tend to view our challenges from our own perspective and see our own needs first". We can learn from Sarah that the focus of her life was her son and the continuation of Benei Yisrael.

Shabbat Shalom!!!

Lech Lecha; Leave it ALL Behind!

Leaving everything behind was one of Abraham's 10 tests. The biggest test is turn away from our family and friends when they are not beneficial for our growth. Abraham had to look at his environment one last time and literally left it all behind. Rabbi Osher Jungreis explains "In Hebrew, "test"is called nisayon, which, literally translated, means to be lifted up, for in truth, every difficulty, every stumbling block that G-d places in our paths is, in reality, a challenge through which we can become elevated".

He continues, "Rabbi Meshulam HaLevi Jungreis, Z`tl, would often say that the difference between bitter and better is just one letter. So too, in life, everything depends on attitude. One little letter can change everything. The way we react to onerous, trying challenges will either make us better or bitter. This message is especially significant to us today as we are beset by so many unknowns, so many fears. Let us convert our anxieties into challenges for growth. Let us become better and not bitter. This teaching should guide us in every aspect of our lives. Should the challenge be major or minor, big or small, the image of our father Abraham should remind us to seize the opportunity to make that which is bitter, better".

Hashem gives Abraham and Sarah a son in their old age. This magnificent miracle is quickly shattered by G-d commandment to sacrifice Yitzhak. What was the test? could it really be that Abraham, the most loyal servant of G-d, would not listen? He would do anything! The test was really for Yitzhak...would he live up to his father? The midrash explains that when Yitzhak realized what was going on, he asked his father to tighten the ropes so that the korban would be kosher. When Hashem heard this he said "ahh he is like Abraham".

Leaving our old selves and our old environments behind (like Abraham) is not easy. The challenge is not looking back but rather looking forward at what we will leave behind.

Noach; How Do We Measure Up?

In this past week's Parsha, the character of Noach is introduced with quite the glorious entrance! He is called "a righteous man among his generation" and is given a lengthy introduction in comparison to other characters in the Torah. Abraham, who is introduced in this week's parsha, Lech Lecha, is not given any special adjectives or attributes. He is literally told "lech lecha, go!" We call G-d, "G-d of Abraham", not "G-d of Noach". What happens to Noach that he does not reach the level of Abraham? Rashi adds to this question by saying that if another way to understand the description "a righteous man among his generation" is that if he was in another generation, he would not be considered righteous.

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Rebbetzin Jungreis is known for saying that everything in life is a test. What was Noach's test? The true test came after the flood. After we have experienced trouble is when we are truly tested. It is easier to approach G-d in times of despair, but what about when everything is good and back to normal? Noach's first act after he left the ark was to plant a vineyard and get drunk. We need to learn form Noach, who had the potential to be incredible, to stay close to G-d even after all the turmoil has passed.

5769; The Year of Mashiach?

"Nothing occurs randomly in the world. Nothing happens accidentally. Time and again, the Torah admonishes us not to fall into the trap of “keri”, the belief that that which befalls us is mere happenstance....that things just happen because they happen, and there is no Divine Hand guiding it (Leviticus, 26)" (Rebbetzin Jungreis in her weekly Column). The constant tragedies in our world pleads us to ask "WHY?!"

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This past week's Parsha was Bereishit, the beginning. The Rebbetzin gives further insight: "Hashem created this world in six days. We have a teaching that the duration of each day was one thousand years, and by the year 6000, Moshiach will come – a day that will be kulo Shabbos – all Sabbath. Of course, he can come earlier – even today. As it is written, “Hayom eem b’koloh tishm’u – Today, if we listen to His voice.

"What is salient for us to remember however is that we are presently in the year 5769, which is the erev Shabbos period in our history, and we all know that Shabbos can sometimes come early and sometimes late – but erev Shabbos it is.

"Our sages teach that this period is also referred to as “eekvei d’Moshiach – Footsteps of Messiah, or Chevlei Moshiach – Birth pangs of Messiah”. Now, birth pangs can be very painful. At their onset, contractions come very slowly and irregularly, but as the birth becomes immanent, they speed up and intensify and just as the pain become unbearable, it’s “mazel tov” and the baby is born. Now what, you may ask, are the telling portents of this travail? Once again, we turn to the wisdom of our sags and prophets.

"Chutzpah will abound; the young will rise insolently against their elders; families will become fragmented; children will turn against their parents; there will be no shame or embarrassment, even in face of the most vile, obscene, immoral acts; corruption and dishonesty will abound and there will be no one capable of admonishing the people since immortality will be so prevalent. Natural disasters and catastrophes will multiply – tsunamis, hurricanes, volcanic eruptions, earthquakes, and hitherto unknown diseases will spread. The face of the generation will be like that of a dog (the dog runs ahead of its master, but keeps looking back to see if his master is following) – meaning that the people will lack values and principles and keep looking to see whether that which they espouse is politically correct....whether popular opinion endorses it. Overnight cherished icons and hallowed institutions in which people placed their trust will collapse and disintegrate.

"How long will this process continue? Until man concludes, “ein od milvado – there is no One but G-d”. Does all this sound familiar? Do you recognize our generation? Do you see a reflection of our contemporary world? Do you see that which is unfolding before your very eyes? And there is more..... In Pirkei d’Rabbi Eliezer (an early Midrashic work), it is written that, before the coming of Messiah, we will have to contend with tribulations that will come from Yishmael. This teaching is reaffirmed by Rabbi Chaim Vital, the illustrious disciple of the Arizal, who wrote that, before the final curtain falls on the stage of history, Yishmael will inflict torture on our people in ways the world has never before seen.

"One need not have great powers of discernment to recognize the painful veracity of these predictions. Consider only the suicide bombers, the decapitations, the highjackings, the missiles, the rockets and the constant, senseless, brutal acts of terror. Do you remember the Israeli soldier who was kidnapped in Ramle, tortured to death, his body thrown out of the window, where it was trampled into pulp by the mob that danced on his corps and celebrated the savage killing, waving their bloody hands in triumph.

"We are the generation that has been destined to witness the fulfillment of the prophecy given to Hagar (Genesis 16:11-13). “Behold you will conceive and give birth to a son, and you shall name him Ishmael... and he shall be a wild ass of a man; with his hand against everyone and everyone’s hand against him and over all his brethren shall he dwell....”

"The long arm of Ishmael’s terror has indeed reached every part of the world. Who in America can forget 9/11? The sheer cruelty of that day is beyond anything that the human mind can comprehend. Does not Ishmael’s hand reach out throughout the entire world as was prophesied thousands of years ago? Does he not have cells all over the world?

"In the Yalkut Shimoni (a Medieval/Midrashic compilation) the events of today are eerily foretold and should give us all pause. It is written that before Messiah comes, the King of Persia will have a weapon that will terrorize the world. Ancient Persia is today’s Iran. Need I say more?The Klausenberger Rebbe, Z’tl, referring to this teaching, said, “Remember these words. They are perhaps not understood now, but in time they will be, and will be a source of strength to our people.”

"Had you heard these prophecies centuries ago, when they were written...never mind...just a few short years ago, you might have laughed and scoffed, but today, the impossible has become our reality. And yet, we are blind. We have eyes that see not, ears that hear not. Alas, we are afflicted by the disease of Egypt (Deuteronomy, 28).Now, what was the disease of Egypt? Stubborn, obdurate hearts. Ancient Egypt was struck by devastating plagues, but even as the mighty Egyptian empire crumbled, even as it was reduced to ashes, Pharaoh remained obstinate. He refused to concede that there is a G-d governing this world.

"The Torah portion that led us into this past Yom Kippur was Parshas Vayelech in which the Torah foretells the terrible suffering that will befall our people, and that we will declare “that this is happening because G-d is not in our midst!” But G-d’s response will be to hide His face (Deut.31).When we say that G-d is not in our midst, we place the onus of responsibility on the Almighty and absolve ourselves from blame. But it is we who are not with G-d. It is we who are guilty! It is we who must search our hearts and come closer to our G-d and embrace His Torah and mitzvos.”

So G-d’s presence remains hidden from us. But that need not be a negative prophecy, for someone who is hiding is not absent. He is here and need only be found. There is a telling story about a Chasidic Rebbe who came upon a little boy standing behind a tree and crying bitterly.

“Why are your crying?” the Rebbe asked.

“I’m hiding,” the boy sobbed, “and no one is looking for me!”

The words of the child were like a sharp knife in the heart of the Rebbe.

“Woe is us,” he said. “G-d is waiting for us to find Him, but we have failed to search for Him! Woe is us.”

So what must we do to ease the birth pangs and insure a smooth birth?

"First and foremost, we must search, find and connect with our Heavenly Father, and thus establish a genuine close relationship with Him. But this cannot be just a theoretical concept. Our sages teach that he who wishes to be spared the travails of the birth pangs of the Messianic period should occupy himself with three endeavors: 1) Torah, 2) Gemilas Chasadim (acts of loving kindness) and 3) be scrupulous regarding Shalosh Seudas the third Sabbath meal. The Hebrew term used for “occupy” is “ya’asok” which literally means “business”. In other words, Torah and acts of kindness must be so much a part of us that they literally become our business. This does not connote sporadic, superficial study, observance and prayer, but rather, a total immersion in Torah and chesed, to the point where it takes over our lives.

"As for the third Sabbath meal, every Shabbos we are commanded to partake of three (seudos) festive meals – Friday night, Shabbos noon, and a third meal in the afternoon. Our sages teach that all three meals are embodied in the last one, for at this point, we are satiated from our two previous meals. Nevertheless, we sit down at our table in honor of Shabbos and our G-d"

The messages are clear and the prophecies are unfolding...let's turn to G-d and declare “ein od milvado – there is no One but G-d!!!" May we all be worthy to see the coming of Mashiach, with peace, this year, 5769, Amen!!!

The Message of Sukkot

The message of dwelling in the Sukkah (hut) for a week is to show our emunah (faith) in Hashem. He takes care of His creatures for every single detail! We choose to dwell in a hut made out of sticks rather than our comfortable solid homes to show that we trust that Hashem will always protect us. Our protection comes from Hashem, not from the solid buildings around us: not from the solid institution around us, the government, social security nor our money in the banks....

Our faith in G-d is being tested now more than ever. Like the Rebbetzin says, "The world is running amok -- Institutions that only yesterday appeared as solid as the Rock of Gibraltar are crumbling before our very eyes. It cannot be. What is happening? "Everyone sees it differently, depending upon his political leanings, and at the end of the day, it can all be summed up in a pithy saying coined by a past president: “Success has many fathers, but failure is an orphan.”

"It doesn’t much matter how you see it – the cruel reality is upon us. Our cherished, venerable pillars are collapsing before our very eyes like a house of cards, and the meltdown has become global. Everyone is hurting. Everyone is affected, but many of the nations of the world take perverse pleasure in seeing us, the giant tumble...the U.S. is on the brink of cardiac arrest, they gleefully chide us and root for our leadership and power to vanish.

"I really couldn’t care less about the reactions of the nations of the world to our financial crisis. Ingratitude and jealousy are as old as history itself. We, the Jewish people, Baruch Hashem, have been admonished and alerted to protect ourselves from such corrosive sentiments. Already thousands of years ago, we were taught “not to cast stones into the well from which we drank”. Gratitude is one of the pillars of Judaism – so much so that we are even commanded not to abhor the Egyptians who enslaved us, for at one time, they offered us hospitality, and for that we must remain forever grateful.

"So why do I pause to comment on the reaction of the nations? Because we have to know how to connect the dots. No event occurs randomly - nothing just “happens”. Our financial crisis and the hatred and ambition of rogue nations are a deadly combination that should raise a red flag for every thinking person. We witnessed this during the years of the Great Depression, when America turned inward and became isolationist and Hitler had a field day. There was no one to stop the monster, no one to monitor him, no one to call a halt to his mad obsession to dominate the world.

"Events are unfolding today that are, G-d forbid, reminiscent of the thirties. Once again, we are in financial crisis. Please G-d, it is not as severe as it was in 1929, but we are a pampered, spoiled, entitlement oriented generation, used to excesses and credit card spending – so this melt -down is hitting us hard. We are involved in an election process – perhaps one of the most crucial ones in our nation’s history, and the number one issue absorbing our country is our pocketbook! It does not to occur to us that our very lives and the lives of our children are at risk. Even as yesterday, there is a new Hitler in the playground and he is capitalizing on American self- absorption Ahmadinejad, comes to New York, and as unbelievable as it may seem, for the second time, he is given a platform at the U.N. to address the nations of the world; New York, the very city where 9/11 took place! New York, where one would imagine that that moment of infamy would have sufficed to keep Ahmadinejad and his ilk forever out of the city. But incredibly, not only is he welcomed, he is tendered an enthusiastic reception. Emboldened by events, secure in the knowledge that no one is minding the store, this time he doesn’t even bother to disguise his satanic plans. Openly, he proclaims, “The dignity, integrity, and rights of the European and American people are being played with by a small, but deceitful number of people called Zionists. Although they are a minuscule minority, they have been dominating an important portion of the financial and monetary centers as well as the political decision-making centers of some European countries and the U.S. in a deceitful, complex, and furtive manner.”

"And just for good measure, he added that Israel is a “stinking cesspool that must be eliminated”! And incredibly, there is no outcry, there is no outrage. On the contrary, the venerable representatives of the nations applaud him! To me, a survivor of the concentration camps, Ahmadinejad’s demagoguery has an ominous all-too familiar ring.

"Was it only yesterday that I heard the same hate-mongering from Hitler? Was it only yesterday that the nations of the world embraced and cheered this satanic monster while America, absorbed in its own financial crisis, remained silent? How tragic that history keeps repeating itself and we never learn. There was no one to stop Hitler when he embarked upon his savage, bloody course, and today, there is no one to stop Ahmadinejad and company. Ahmadinejad is making hay from America’s financial crisis and other totalitarian nations are joining him. The Russian Bear is menacing the world again – wheeling and dealing with Venezuela’s madman, Chavez.... North Korea reneges on her agreement to halt nuclear proliferation, and is moving full speed ahead with her deadly program.... Rogue nations are taking over and there in no one to police them. The world is on fire as America turns inward and Moslem influence and penetration continue to infiltrate and escalate in every country ... every hemisphere.

"The unbelievable is unfolding before our eyes and we are caught sleeping. The entire world is affected, but for us Jews, everything is always more so. We must look at that which befalls the world and our people through different lenses. We have to listen for the hidden messages. We have to see the Divine Hand that is guiding us. We cannot simply attribute our present crisis to bad judgment, corruption, or an unfortunate confluence of circumstances. So how are we to understand that which is unfolding before our very eyes? What must our Jewish lenses telegraph us?"

These are all tests from Hashem; our emunah needs to be strengthend now more than ever! The message of the Sukkah is more relevant now than before!

Rosh Hashana and Yom Kippur

The 10 days between Rosh Hashana and Yom Kippur are a chance to do repentance and to show Hashem our potential. As it says in the prayers, "on Rosh Hashana [our fate] is written and on Yom Kippur [our fate] is sealed". This is when "in the Heavenly Court the existence of every individual in the entire world is being judged". The Rebbetzin stresses, "despite everything – Holocaust, assimilation, alienation, the Jewish people have not forgotten Him. Embedded in every Yiddishe neshama is that pintele Yid, which, if touched, in a second can become a flame". It is never too late; we all have that spark of potential.

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The Rebbetzin shares a beautiful story in her weekly column: "I guess it all started a few years ago, when a lovely young woman, Adrienne Feher, visited from Budapest and joined us for Rosh Hashana and Yom Kippur davening. Our Hineni organization conducts High Holiday services in the grand ballroom of the Pierre or Plaza Hotels in Manhattan and also caters beautiful Yom Tov meals there. Adrienne had experienced a crisis in faith. She lived through some traumatic family tragedies causing her to wonder whether G-d really existed. Quite by accident, her mother discovered my book “The Committed Life” which had been translated into Hungarian, and gave it to her daughter to read. The book spoke to her and prompted Adrienne to make the journey from Budapest to New York for Rosh Hashana and Yom Kippur.

"The tefillas – the prayers and the Torah teachings entered Adriann’s heart, and she, in turn entered my heart, and thus our friendship commenced. Time and again she would say to me, “Rebbetzin, it would be so wonderful if you could come to Budapest to speak!” But Adrienne did not allow her thoughts to remain wishful thinking. She gave a copy of my book to the dedicated Executive Director of the Hungarian Jewish Federation, Mr. Gustav Zoltai. The book penetrated his neshama, and he committed himself to bringing its message to the entire Jewish community. Daringly, he booked the prestigious Urania Theater for a pre-Rosh Hashana/Yom Kippur program. It was truly a courageous plan, especially since there were only three weeks in which to make the preparations. But where there is a will, there is a way and Mr. Zoltai together with Adrienne got to work. The Hungarian Jewish community throughout the country had to be mobilized. For Adrienne, this was especially challenging, since, in the interim, she had become engaged to an exceptional Torah committed young man, Robert Deutsch, and the wedding was scheduled to take place on the day before my program.

“How will you do it?” I asked Adrienne and Robert. “It will be our greatest privilege,” they answered. “We cannot think of a more perfect way to begin our new lives.....and from the Rebbetzin’s program, we will go straight to Sheva Brochos!”

"We booked an early flight so that we might arrive in ample time for the wedding. However, like most flights nowadays, our plane to Budapest was delayed, and we were forced to wait endless hours at JFK. We e-mailed Adrienn and Robert and urged them to proceed with the wedding and not wait for our arrival, but of course, they waited, and Baruch Hashem, we arrived just in time to greet Chosen/Kallah. It was a most elegant and truly Yiddishe chaseneh, and as Adrienne had promised, the following night, chosen/kallah and the entire wedding party was at the Urania Theater. It had rained the entire day, but despite the inclement weather, the people kept coming. It was a sight to behold! By the time I arrived, the theater was filled.

"In addition to the members of the Hungarian Jewish community, rabbis and congregational leaders, the Honorable April Foley, the United States Ambassador to Hungary, was present and spoke most meaningfully. Mr. Zoltai delivered a powerful introduction, and then, it was my turn.

I began speaking in Hungarian, and explained to the audience that I was just a little girl when the Nazis deported us to the concentration camps, so I never really had an opportunity to study in Hungarian schools. Although I spoke the language, my vocabulary was limited and I asked for their kind understanding.

"I also told them that while I never studied Hungarian geography, I was nevertheless familiar with the names of all of the villages and cities, for, prior to the Holocaust, in almost every city and village, there was a cousin, a Jungreis rabbi who taught Torah and led his congregation with love and dedication. There were 87 Jungreis rabbis is Hungary prior to that unspeakable catastrophe – so yes, I was familiar with all the villages and cities.

"My father of blessed memory, HaRav HaGaon Avraham HaLevi Jungreis, Z’tl, was the Chief Orthodox Rabbi of Szeged (the second largest city in Hungary – not to be confused with Siget, a shtetl not far from the Roumanian border) – I was deeply moved by members of the Jewish community of Szeged who had traveled to the program with their rabbi and congregation president. They waited to greet me at the entrance to the theater and presented me with meaningful mementos from the city. It was truly a historic moment. Just consider, I who had been deported in a cattle car was now greeted in Budapest by the remnants of the Jews of Szeged. Just consider it, and you have to be overwhelmed by the awesomeness of it all..

"My beloved husband, HaRav Meshulem Halevi Jungreis, Z’tl, was the son of Rabbi Osher Anschil Halevi Jungreis of Gyngyos. You might wonder why I mention all this? Why is this history relevant to the program? I believe that in addition to the hard work put in by Mr Zoltai, Adrienn and others, the success of the evening can be attributed to assistance from the Heavens above. My zeides, my in-laws, my uncles and cousins who had all been rabbis in their communities gathered their congregants and petitioned the Almighty G-d to send their descendants so that they might hear words of Torah. I shared this thought with the audience and told them that I remembered our holy grandparents and great-grandparents. I remembered their goodness, their pure love and dedication to Torah and mitzvos, and I assured them that their pure holy souls were greeting them, blessing them, and rejoicing that they came.

"I spoke of my zeide, HaRav HaGaon HaTzadik Yisroel Halevi Jungreis, HykmD, the Rov of Nadudvar. With one arm he carried a Sefer Torah, and in the other, his infant grandchild – and that is how he was taken to the gas chambers. “Meen’sharim kalu.... they were swifter than eagles, stronger than lions, to do the will of their Creator”. But, I explained, there is no flame that can extinguish the light of our Torah, and if just one Jew survived from a community where the voice of Torah was once heard, he built a synagogue, a yeshiva, so that the teaching of Torah might continue and give life to a new generation. So it is that today, in every major city in which survivors dwell, be it London, New York or Jerusalem, , there are synagogues with odd sounding names that recall the shtetlech in which Torah once thrived.

"There is a mystical power to the Jewish people. In Yiddish, we call it the “Pintele Yid.” It’s an ember, a spark, and if ignited, in an instant it becomes a flame, and the Jew remembers his covenant with G-d. “V’zot briti....And this is My covenant with them, sayeth the L-rd: And these words that I have placed upon your lips, shall not depart from your lips, nor from the lips of your children or your children’s children, thus sayeth the L-rd, forevermore.”

"It was a night that the Hungarian Jewish community will long remember. Eyes became moist with tears – the “Pintele Yid” burst forth with all its majestic power. “Mee k’amcha Yisroel, goy echod b’aretz.....Who is like Thy Jewish people oh G-d, a unique nation on this planet earth, a nation that despite unbearable suffering, despite the forces of assimilation, has never forgotten You!” Have mercy on Your children Oh G-d and inscribe all Your people in the Book of Forgiveness and the Book of Life!"

The Magic Formula for The Book of Life

Rosh Hashanah and Yom Kippur are so near yet we are so far away. How do we prepare ourselves? The Rebbetzin's advice is timeless, "'Hafoch boh, hafoch boh, d’kula boh - Turn the pages, turn the pages, for everything is to be found within it.” To every challenge there is a teaching from our Torah that is applicable. The well-known three-fold formula is guaranteed to yield positive results: tshuva, tefilla, and tzedukah – repentance, prayer, and charity."

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The Rebbetzin continues, "It never ceases to amaze me however, how many people resist this advice, although they give lip service to it every Rosh Hashana and Yom Kippur. It is amazing how few of us are sensitive to the language of prayer, and how resistant we can be to suggestions that we elevate our service to Hashem. Whatever our religious commitment may be, we are content with the status quo and shun suggestions for growth. It goes without saying that we would never apply this logic to our financial and material positions. In those areas, we are always eager to expand and grow.

"Recently, a young lady came to see me with an overwhelmingly devastating problem. When, among other things, I recommended that she turn to Hashem and follow the formula of tshuva, tefilla, and tzedukah, she smiled indulgently and said, “Rebbetzin, I need real help, real solutions.”

"For a moment, I was astonished. She was an observant woman – how could she have made such a statement? “Can there be any more real solution than the help of G-d?” I challenged. To what extend do we really believe that Hashem can intercede and resolve our problems? How deep is our faith?

"It is Chodesh Elul and our world is in crisis. We are beset by so many difficulties, trials and tribulations, be they personal or national. Our problems are huge, but we are short on faith. It is written in the Talmud: “Ayn yisurin boh l’olom elah bishvil Yisroel – Suffering is not visited upon the world but to awaken our Jewish people...” Just consider that which is unfolding right here in our own backyard. Nature itself is crying out for our attention. Hurricanes and floods are sweeping our country, creating havoc and forcing multitudes to flee their homes. Additionally, the political situation in our own United States as well as throughout the world is frighteningly uncertain, and looming over it all is the terrifying specter of the danger to Eretz Yisroel.

"The month of Elul is upon us. Rosh Hashana and Yom Kippur are just around the corner. Our lives, our future, our very world is hanging in the balance. We cannot allow this Elul to be “same old, same old”. This Elul we must become different.

"The parsha that ushers in Chodesh Elul is Re’eh. This Torah portion is all about “choices”. Moshe Rabbenu, our loving rabbi, charges us with the responsibility of “choosing” blessing over curse. The first condition to this blessing is to develop our ability to listen (asher tishm’oon), We have a responsibility to sensitize our hearts and minds so that we might hear the call of G-d in our daily lives.

"How do we react when our Heavenly Father lovingly rebukes us? It is Chodesh Elul – Let us have a moment of truth and answer. When difficult days befall us, do we feel self-righteous indignation and anger? Do we feel that we have been treated unjustly, or do we return to our Heavenly Father, to our G-d in humility, prayer and love?

"I have often told my listeners that overwhelming problems can be analogous to boiling water. When you place a carrot into boiling water, it becomes mush and disintegrates. When you do the same with an egg, it becomes hard and tough. On the other hand, when you place coffee or tea into boiling water, it is transformed into a delicious drink. This then, is the option that we all have: we can collapse and disintegrate like the carrot; we can become hard and tough like the egg, or we can take our boiling water and convert it into something positive – a delicious drink.

"That is the option that stands before all of us. When confronted by overwhelming problems, when the water is really boiling, we can fall apart like the carrot and become depressed – but that will not benefit anyone....worse, it will consume and destroy us.

"We can become tough like hard boiled eggs – cynical, bitter, and angry like those petulant children. Once again, a self-destructive response that will only alienate us from others and from our true selves.

"Finally, we can become like coffee or tea and convert our boiling hot water into s delicious drink that can be nourishing for us as well as for others. We can look upon our problems as challenges, as opportunities for growth and convert our negatives into positives, our liabilities into assets and our short comings into strengths.

"Yes, if we know how to listen, we can realize our full potential as Jews and return to our Heavenly Father and to our Torah way of life. Our history demonstrates that there is no difficulty, no obstacle that we cannot overcome when we become one with our G-d. We need only allow the light of G-d to lead us. “G-d is my light and my salvation...Whom shall I fear?” is the psalm that we recite twice daily during this season But do we really believe it? Do we really believe that G-d is our light and our salvation? This year, let us demonstrate our faith and not just mouth empty words, but let us allow the light of G-d to truly lead us. We simply cannot afford to continue with “same old, same old.”